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3 things you should avoid doing in the middle of a divorce

On Behalf of | Apr 10, 2023 | Divorce

Divorce is often an emotional process. Even under the best circumstances, there are certain aspects of the divorce process that are going to be difficult. During this time, you may feel the temptation to revenge. However, doing this would be a bad idea.

Although there are no two identical divorce cases, there are some things that you should avoid during the divorce process. Some things you do may harm your divorce case or hurt you and the people you love. Below are a few things you should avoid doing during the divorce. 

1. Hiding assets from your spouse during discovery

For most divorcing couples, the division of assets is a major point of contention. Because Texas is a community state, divorcing spouses have to divide marital assets equally. Therefore, you may be tempted to hide some of your assets, especially if you’re angry at your soon-to-be ex or believe you deserve to get more. You may face high fines if your hidden assets are discovered during the divorce discovery — and even lose everything you attempted to keep.

2. Airing your dirty laundry on social media

Having friends and family around you is important when going through a divorce. One way you can communicate with them is through social media. However, avoid using it to vent about your divorce. Remember, your social media posts can be used later against you. 

3. Attempting to alienate the children from their other parent

In most divorces, children are affected the most, and trying to turn your kids against your ex may make things worse for them. In addition, using your kids as pawns won’t help anyone and may damage your relationship with them.

If you’re going through a divorce, you probably know it’s difficult and expensive. Therefore, it’s crucial that you avoid some mistakes that can make things worse. Seeking legal guidance during your divorce can help you avoid making this already trying situation more challenging than it needs to be.